Some people attract money. Others can’t hold on to it. Still, others seem to have a money ceiling, especially people in helping professions.
Are you willing to stop how you limit money potential? Discover more…
“People perceive, value and treat money differently. But regardless of how you interact with it, money and your financial circumstances play a major role in your life. Money can provide security, freedom and power and lack of it can leave you feeling inadequate and trapped in undesirable circumstances.” Christy Matta, M.A.
Three Reasons Why You Could Be Limiting Your Income
1. What Is In Your Head?
Your childhood consciousness absorbed so much of your parents and grandparents’ money statements like a sponge. Go here to learn a strategy to discover your childhood statements that disrupt your relationship to money. What you absorbed from previous generations most likely is rooted in three emotions—fear, guilt, and anxiety.
I remember these money-related phrases from my father as he spoke to his four daughters through the years: One day you’ll have a good man to take of you. You won’t ever have to worry about money. Make sure you have a job of teaching to fall back on. You can put your birthday money in a savings account. You cannot spend it. Your mother is on a strict budget.
Please do not believe that trying to control your thoughts or changing your thoughts is going to change your relationship with money. Neither will affirmations although using affirmations provides a focus for the mental distraction from emotional reactions. Transformation of ingrained childhood beliefs takes more in-depth discovery on an emotional level! That is, the heart level!
2. What Is In Your Heart?
Those phrases your parents used, whether around fear, guilt, anxiety or joy may be all mixed up in your heart’s emotional center.
- Begin by working with your feelings from the past. What were the parents’ beliefs and words regarding money?
- Next, connect the past feelings to your emotional reactions in the present.
- The comparison reveals how you adapted to your parents’ emotional swirls around income, spending, savings, and security.
- To change the financial situation, are you willing to review and claim all how you sabotage your financial stability?
The fault triggers are from childhood, and the money memories rise until YOU TAKE CHARGE!
Once you do, you’ll feel free, energized and enthusiastic, and liberated
Money can symbolize power, security, an abundance of stuff, and even your very survival. The possible or actual loss of money is like a skilled swordsman who turns in circles to protect his back from the enemy who surrounds him.
Do you understand how these money matters create a constant stream of chronic stressors? Your reactions generate your partner’s responses. If either of you reacts as if you are in a life-threatening situation, your survival instincts kick in.
Whoo! Emotional overload, fear of no money, survival threatened. That is when one or both of you go off to extreme actions. Stop it now and learn how to earn by maximizing your passion for profit.